We recently had the chance to connect with Evette Henderson and have shared our conversation below.
Evette, it’s always a pleasure to learn from you and your journey. Let’s start with a bit of a warmup: Have any recent moments made you laugh or feel proud?
Definitely. I just graduated with my bachelor’s degree in Human Services, and honestly, it still feels surreal. There were so many moments I doubted whether I would ever get here, so crossing that stage was more than just a ceremony, it was a reminder of how far I have come. I felt proud, not just for the degree itself, but for sticking with it through everything. It’s a big milestone, and I’m letting myself feel good about it.
Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
I’m Evette, a self-published author of three books, including Out of My Head and Into yours. I write poetry that’s deeply personal, reflective, and rooted in lived experience. One of my books, My Life in a Poetic Type of Way, is written entirely in poetic form, which I think is pretty unique. It’s my story told through rhythm and emotion, not just words. Lately, I have been working on bringing those poems to life visually. I have started creating short clips, what I call “visual poetry” that combine my writing with imagery and sound. I have been sharing them across my social media platforms to connect with people who might need a moment of reflection, healing, or simply to feel seen. My goal is to make poetry more accessible and to use storytelling as a way to build connection and community. Everything I create is about turning vulnerability into strength and using art to speak to the parts of us that often go unheard.
Great, so let’s dive into your journey a bit more. What did you believe about yourself as a child that you no longer believe?
As a child, I believed I was a nobody. I felt invisible, like no one cared about me. People said mean things, and the world didn’t feel like a safe or welcoming place. That stuck with me for a long time. As I’ve grown, I’ve come to understand that those voices weren’t telling the truth about who I am. I know now that I am someone. I matter. I have a purpose, and I’m here to use my story, my creativity, and my voice to help others feel seen too.
What fear has held you back the most in your life?
The fear that’s held me back the most is the fear of thriving or truly stepping into greatness, not because I did not want to invite competition or comparison. I have always valued authenticity and connection, and the idea of being “at the top” felt like it might isolate me or make others feel like they had to measure up. For a long time, I stayed at a level where I felt safe, where I didn’t have to worry about being challenged or misunderstood. I have come to realize that playing small doesn’t serve me or the communities I care about. There’s more I’m meant to do, and more I’m capable of becoming. I’ve made peace with the fact that growth might attract competition but it will also attract purpose, impact, and alignment. If the path leads me to the top, then I’ll rise with humility, intention, and a commitment to bringing others with me.
Sure, so let’s go deeper into your values and how you think. Whom do you admire for their character, not their power?
I admire Mary J. Blige, not for her fame or power, but for her character. I’m not someone who follows celebrities closely, but she’s always stood out to me. Her journey hasn’t been easy, and yet she continues to rise with grace, resilience, and honesty. There’s a strength in her presence, a tough exterior that’s clearly been earned but when she speaks, you can feel the softness, the vulnerability, and the truth behind her words. Her music has always resonated with me. It’s raw, emotional and deeply human. She doesn’t just perform, she connects. She brings people together through shared experience and emotion, and that’s something I strive to do in my own work. Whether through storytelling, advocacy, or creative entrepreneurship, I want to build spaces where people feel seen and understood, just like she does.
Okay, we’ve made it essentially to the end. One last question before you go. When do you feel most at peace?
I feel most at peace when I’m home, free to just be. No deadlines looming, no expectations to meet, no emotional tension hanging in the air. It’s the quiet freedom of choosing what I want to do, whether that’s resting, creating, or simply existing without pressure. In those moments, I’m not solving anyone’s problems or navigating anyone’s energy. I’m just me, in my own space, and that’s where I feel most whole.
Contact Info:
- Facebook: Evette ThePoet Henderson
- Youtube: Evette ThePoet Henderson @EvetteThePoet
- Other: My Life In a Poetic Type of Way- https://a.co/d/7E97NRS
Out of My Head and Into Yours- https://a.co/d/8Y5qfuR
If Awesome Was a Person- https://a.co/d/ccsfaUZ
